Check this out for setting your new years resolutions!

Happy New Year to all our Sportzdaters out there on their gallant search for the partner of their dreams. With the end of 2009 and a new year just beginning, now is the perfect time to hatch a plan and make it happen for you in a bright and shiny new 2010.

Sportzdating is now in to its 4th year of mixing and matching for all our movers and shakers, with a glowing success record of at least 15 couples that we know about, and probably plenty more who are so caught up in the love glow they haven't even thought about sharing their good news.

For those of you putting finding or attracting that winning match at the top of your New Year's Resolutions list, here's a few ideas that could help fuel that rocket to blast off:

After you have made a committment to yourself to find your good sort this year, and determined to honor that committment, the first step to making this happen is to figure out what it is exactly that you want. Set aside an hour or 2 to sit quietly and have a think about what matters to you, and then start writing down all the specific qualities, character traits, interests, and other stuff that is important to you in an intimate relationship. Don't be shy, and remember to write down absolutely every single thing, leaving nothing unsaid, because the power of doing this gets you exactly what you ask for. There's a saying, "Be careful what you ask for, because you just might get it." When you are 100% sure that you have written down everything you want, keep your wish list somewhere close and private, maybe under your pillow. Then let the powers that be do all the hard yacker of finding this exact person for you. All you have to do is know what you want, ask for what you want, be true to yourself, and get yourself out there so you can be found.

You can take out your piece of paper and read over what you have written down any old time to help to keep you on track, and strengthen your resolve. Or you can completely forget about it, and just let love unfold. It really is that easy!! The results will blow you away.

The next step is to get yourself out there, and make your dream come true. Here are some practicalities towards helping you find each other:

Share your Sportzdating new year's resolution with your friends and family, so they can help you in your search, and nag you to stick with it and keep at it if and when you start to forget and get busy with other things. Keep yourself in top form - healthy, happy, relaxed, fit, busy, and out and about so you give your love match the opportunity to actually meet you and fall head over heels in love with you. Keep yourself gorgeoused up even for late night supermarket visits. And men - keep those nose and ear hairs trimmed, those spiders can really get away on you if you let them.

• Surround yourself with happy and loving couples and singles, who live their life the way you would like to live yours. While you are single and searching for love, keep your energy levels soaring, and living your best life with passion. Join a cycling or running group, or whatever sporty thing lights your fire - its a great way to play and meet cool people and make new friends, and you just never know when you're hot potato is going to walk right up to you.
  
• Take the time to take the best care of yourself so you can be who you really are, keeping play, work, rest, and fun in balance. Eat truckloads of high energy fresh fruits and vegetables, and whole plant foods, and fill yourself up on great times with loved ones, and work that feeds your soul, rather than comfort foods. This will move mountains in helping you sleep less and play and work and love more.

Instead of resenting happy couples in love, immerse yourself in them to help inspire you to find that for yourself - they found it and so can you. Be happy for people who are happy and that happiness will come to you so effortlessly. Ask them how they met... talk with them about being in love, and your own search for Mr or Mrs right. Determine to diary a weekly (at least) slot to check Sportzdating and set up match-mail if you haven’t already! -Commit to messaging 3 potential good sorts every week! Maybe you could ask a couple of friends to check in with you at the end of each week to see if you are sticking to your plan. Meet up with someone who sounds interesting at least every 2 weeks until you find your good sort! Dates are so much fun, and a good excuse for all sorts of adventures.

When you find your good sort, we would love to hear about it, and there's a wee pressie in store for all you lucky Sportzdaters when you strike gold. Good luck, give it your very best shot, and make 2010 the most fantastic year of your life!!!!